A lot of people look for one. We even see it all through out the Bible with many godly men. Jesus even looks for an escape at times.
Jesus withdrew again to the mountain by himself. (John 6:15b)
In this passage, Jesus has just preached and taught a large group of people and fed them all with five loaves of bread and two fish. As the people come after him for more, he decides to take some time by himself. There is also the story of the Garden at Gethsemane where Jesus takes time alone to talk to the father before he goes to the cross.
But he himself went a day's journey into the wilderness and came and say down under a broom tree. (1 Kings 19:4)
We are now look at Elijah. He had just seen God do absolutely miraculous things. God had devoured an altar in a column of fire and helped Elijah defeat 450 prophets of Baal yet he needed a time of rest. He was afraid of Queen Jezebel and needed to escape for a time.
When we want to escape for a time we need to get a few things straight. We can't just jump into isolation and soak in our own self pity. There needs to be sis things that we keep in mind as we escape.
1. Get away
Yes, I do mean physically. Different people have different places that they may go. For you it may just be a certain room in your house. It may be your local Starbucks. For some of you it may be a nearby mountain. I know that I am going to be going on Saturday morning up to Liberty Mountain by myself so I can have some time alone with God and escape the craziness of college life.
2. Get alone
DO NOT TAKE ANYONE WITH YOU!!! This is a time where you need to rejuvenate. Yes, it would be romantic to take your favorite chica up on top of a mountain for the day, but save it for another time. This is you and God time.
3. Get Honest
Be completely honest with God. It's ok. Even if you don't say it out loud He knows. So go ahead and say it, shout it, do whatever. Elijah asked God to kill him. Moses prayed that God would kill the Israelite cause they were so frustrating to deal with! Be honest with God about what you are feeling.
4. Get rest
Again, yes this is physical. Take a nap. Lay on the grass and look at the clouds. Read a good novel. Do whatever you need to do just to relax and get some rest for you mind and body.
5. Get fed
Now this time I DO NOT mean physically. Well...you do need to eat, but more importantly you need to feed your soul. You have to get into God's word. You have prayed to God and told Him how you feel, you have rested and cooled off a little, and now God will show you what you need from His word. Always make sure to have your Bible at your place of escape and READ IT! Have a study plan. They are all over the place online. Personally I would suggest starting in John, then Acts, and then Romans. All three are powerful books that give you a clear picture of three things: Jesus, the Church, and the Christian Life.
6. Get up
You can't stay in this state forever. Don't be one of those Christians that sits and soaks and gets fat on the spirit. As God pours into you, you need to pour out to other people. You need to get up from this place of escape and solitude and get back into the swing of things with a refreshed soul and possibly a whole new perspective on living life.
It is not wrong to take some time to get alone. We live in this world that tells us all the time that we need to WORK WORK WORK. We live in a fest paced culture that never takes time to slow down and get alone with God. This is something that is especially important for people in ministry. If you never take time for just you and God, you will get empty and then you won't be ministering from and overflow of God. You will be ministering from your own tired and lame efforts. Don't get to that point. Get alone with God and beg Him to fill you again and He WILL!